The women from LatinasinLove

[Mr. Smooth]

I am coming back to the DR in early March for an eight day stay. I recently signed up to get the contact info. from the ladies from this site and try to contact a few that may want to meet me and get better aquainted. I'm always up for meeting "regular" women as opposed to the good time girls that frequent the usual spots.

I had tried this last year with mixed success. I met two women, both from Santiago. Though I liked both, I prefered the second one but after one meeting over lunch at a restaurant close to the Monument, I never saw her again as she told me over the phone that she had gotten sick from her child. The other always had friends with her and I wound up footing the bill everywhere we went.

This time, after looking over the photos of the ladies and having access to their phone numbers, I wrote down a list of ladies that were attractive to me. Of all the women who I called with the numbers they listed, I could only get through to two out of a dozen. Fortunately, one of the ones I hoped to get in touch with responded and we talked briefly and she seems agreeable to meet me when I'm down. Another, however, told me she was married and had been so for two years. Her photo and contact info is still up!

I really wonder how accurate some of the women's info is when they agree to appear on this site. For many, all I could get was a recording telling me their number was not available at this time. Is that standard for saying I have a wrong number or that number is no longer in service?

While I haven't called all the ladies I listed, it gets a little frustrating trying to contact those I may be interested in only to come up against a dead end.

I just wonder how up to date the ladies info is kept. Have others had similiar problems trying to get in touch with someone they would hope to meet?

My vacation time is set for this year and I may be making a few visits in the upcoming months as I have grown to like the vibe of the country from what I have seen so far. It is fairly inexpensive to enjoy yourself and I understand how many guys want to live there, at least for a part of the year.

I just wish I had a better time of it in trying to get in touch with the ladies on this site as there are some real knockouts pictured. It would certainly make for a more memorable time.

[Drbound]

None of the pictures are older than August 2006. Information is as accurate as they give to us. This information we have is from them. Some change a number and we are the last ones to get the update.

Also, if you called around the Holidays, many of the girls go away to the country to visit family and everyone knows how poor the cell phone signal towers are here. We had two phones sitting right beside one another (both with the same carrier), one had service, the other didn't. Go figure that one out. No one else has been able to.

It is just as hard for us to contact them as well but we usually know someone that knows someone and can resolve the issue often times pretty quickly. This is another reason to use our services to help you and cut out some of the frustration.

Please send me a PM of the girl you mentioned that was married as we wish to speak with her to find out whether she entered the site like this or became married and simply neglected to advise us. Married as we would understand it and married as they would consider it are two different things. Nonetheless, she shouldn't be on the page if that is the case.

Thanks!

[rsg]

I honestly have never really had a problem with any phone numbers being accurate.And i probably am Latin Affairs all time #1 user And sure there are going to be some girls who change their number,or change carriers.
And Latin Affairs has no way to know if a girl is available or not, if the girl doesnt take the time to inform them, how could they know..There is no website in the world that follows up with girls to see if they met somone or not.
And MR.smooth you have to expect these young girls to bring a friend or relative in the begining.Would you want your daughter meeting some gringo, that she knows nothing about,all alone? I would actually be more impressed with her if she brought somone along,it would show be that maybe she is not just some desperate easy chica..But best of all,you may just like her friend better No joke, i have had some good luck with a few of the friends that girls have brought along as a shaperone..I get a good laugh when my date uses the restroom and her little friend slips me her number..No tall tales, but i remember the one night when my date and her friend left in a taxi after dinner, and her not so best friend returned alone for desert
And dont limit yourself to a few girls.Start calling as many girls that you are attracted to, and see which ones you feel a connection with.Better to weed them out now, then to waste your time when in the DR..

[Mr. Smooth]

rsg, I get your point. The one who had friends with her actually took me to her house to meet the family. We had a nice time but I detected an almost desperation on her part to find a guy. At 26, I guess she was feeling that time may be of the essence to get married and start a family. I did not see her photo anymore so maybe she did get her man. Or maybe gave up with this site.

I know that trying to contact these ladies may be a crapshoot. I haven't called all of them yet. I probably have a list of 20 names total. Will continue over the next few weeks, different times, weekdays, weekends etc. If nothing pans out I'm ok with that. Just thought I would give it a whirl and see what comes up. The one woman I actually talked with and agreed to meet me seems pretty nice and I liked her pics. All it takes is one so we'll see what happens.

[Robert13212]

I have met ladies on three different trips in the last year. I think Latin Affairs does a fantastic job. I have met 7 - 10 ladies and they have all been of good character. Do not worry about the trouble calling, just keep trying. I am in contact with two ladies currently and half the time I can't get through to them.... and I know their info is correct. you might want to consider taking the tour option. When I have been in the DR I always try to have meeting arranged with at least 4 ladies. When meeting you should expect a friend to tag along, but let the lady know in advance that only one friend is invited. After the first meeting that should not be a problem. But you may have to explain that to the chica. Please keep in mind that to them you are very wealthy, even if you are not. They may simply assume that since you are wealthy that you have money to burn, so why not invite some friends along for a free meal or some beers. All you have to do is say no. And learn to say NO alot. Personally I always like to have a lady with me as my Spanish is not good and she can save you money by avoiding paying gringo prices everywhere. The good ones will look out for you. And of course DRBound is extremely helpful and a wealth of information. Also keep in mind the culture difference, which is a factor in many things. I want to relocate to the DR so when some ladies find out I am not a VISA opportunity they lose interest, and that is a good thing. Actually even if I was not going to live in the DR I would tell them it was a very good possibility just to weed out visa seekers. As for being desperate...... wouldn't you be if you had no career opportunities or a job that pays $140 a month. I am interested in one chica and she is receptionist in lawyer's office. She makes $140 a month for her 54+ hour work week. Her apartment has no stove or frig because she can't afford them. And she is in a much better situation than the other lady I am in contact with! Don't give up hope because since I started meeting Dominicanas I am hooked. Hey DRBound how was your New Year?

[Drbound]

From about the 25th of December to the 4th of January I have been sick as a dog. I wonder why people reference dogs when they talk about being sick. Are dogs known for being sick? Anyways, I had no desire to even leave the house. I think the one day I saw some sun or should I say was actually out in the sun was the 3st when we went to grab a few things from the supermarket and even I felt horrible. I hardly ate, a had a bad headache, my back ached, my muscles were sore and I had a bad cold to go along with everything.

But you know me....I can't complain!

No, I was little under the weather for quite a period but I am getting back to my old self again and I'm out and about. Need to contact your chica about those documents we discussed. I have been putting that off and I need to jump on this ASAP! Might see if I can make an appointment to see her this week.

[Mr. Smooth]

Drbound, what the hell did you get, the hog flu, the chicken flu, the monkey clap or some other ailment blamed for a barnyard animal ? Get better so you can watch your Eagles beat the Boys this weekend.

[Mr. Smooth]

Originally Posted by Robert13212

I have met ladies on three different trips in the last year. I think Latin Affairs does a fantastic job. I have met 7 - 10 ladies and they have all been of good character. Do not worry about the trouble calling, just keep trying. I am in contact with two ladies currently and half the time I can't get through to them.... and I know their info is correct. you might want to consider taking the tour option. When I have been in the DR I always try to have meeting arranged with at least 4 ladies. When meeting you should expect a friend to tag along, but let the lady know in advance that only one friend is invited. After the first meeting that should not be a problem. But you may have to explain that to the chica. Please keep in mind that to them you are very wealthy, even if you are not. They may simply assume that since you are wealthy that you have money to burn, so why not invite some friends along for a free meal or some beers. All you have to do is say no. And learn to say NO alot. Personally I always like to have a lady with me as my Spanish is not good and she can save you money by avoiding paying gringo prices everywhere. The good ones will look out for you. And of course DRBound is extremely helpful and a wealth of information. Also keep in mind the culture difference, which is a factor in many things. I want to relocate to the DR so when some ladies find out I am not a VISA opportunity they lose interest, and that is a good thing. Actually even if I was not going to live in the DR I would tell them it was a very good possibility just to weed out visa seekers. As for being desperate...... wouldn't you be if you had no career opportunities or a job that pays $140 a month. I am interested in one chica and she is receptionist in lawyer's office. She makes $140 a month for her 54+ hour work week. Her apartment has no stove or frig because she can't afford them. And she is in a much better situation than the other lady I am in contact with! Don't give up hope because since I started meeting Dominicanas I am hooked. Hey DRBound how was your New Year?

Robert, good luck with your receptionist friend. No, I'm not giving up with the phone calls. A couple of them have an e-mail address so I'll send a few lines of chicken scratch their way and see if I get a reply.

Like you, I also would like to relocate down there.... at least for part of the year. I may even check with a couple of real estate outfits to make some inquiries. 5 more years on the job is my goal. I'm 45 now so 50 would be a good time to start a new chapter in life. A nice studio close to the water, a few creature comforts, and a nice attractive Dominicana to get me a cold Presidente and share some rice and beans with. Maybe have some pork or beef for Sunday dinner. Hey, ain't that a little slice of paradise??

[Drbound]

I bought some potatoe salad that had been in the sun I guess just a bit tooooooo long. But I am fine now.

I too get frustrated with how some things are here...but each time I ponder leaving...I think about the things mentioned by Smooth above...and that always seems to be enough to keep me here!

[Mr. Smooth]

Since my earlier posts on this thread, I have made contact with 2 women who I have been able to speak with on the phone. Neither speaks more than a few words of english and my spanish is basic at best. But they have both agreed to meet me while I am down, albeit on different days. I hope to spend time getting to know them and perhaps walking along the malecon in Puerta Plata or an afternoon in Cabarete. Always have enjoyed the beach scene there. We'll see how it goes. Having a tour guide/traveling companion can only make my stay all the better. If things work out, I'll be back in June to visit again.